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We asked several former and current NFL players what they look for in women, the answers were interesting!

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Many NFL players are looking for partners, but what is it they look for? Find out what the players say in this fun article on Draft Diamonds!

Many NFL players like to keep their private lives private, and we cannot blame them. Over the past several years, we have helped hundreds of football players, but I thought with COVID-19 happening right now, and having a ton of free time, I thought it would be fun to ask NFL players what they look for in women.

I wanted to ask an array of NFL players and I told them I would keep their names anonymous because I do not want people hitting them up. I think they are real in their answers. They are all different, but there are some pretty cool answers. Check it out!

Let’s get to the answers.

NFL veteran with 5 plus years

I am not going to lie, I often prefer Ukrainian women dating websites. I feel it is better if you meet someone outside the United States, because they do not get star struck. Most of them do not even know what NFL is. They have heard of it but do not really know much about the pay and the lifestyle. I also love the accent of the Ukrainian ladies!

Undrafted Rookie Free Agent

I love when a girl is dressed fly. Let’s face it, football players love clothes, and material things. I love women who take pride in their outfits. Even if it is a casual outfit. If you take pride in your clothes and your looks you are going to take care of me. Just my thoughts!

3 year veteran

Stay away from drama is the key for me, It is simple and easy to deal with. I try to remain focused on my career. I want to be successful and eventually have a family, but I do not believe in just being with anyone. There has to be a connection and drama is not going to do it for me. If I have to waste time thinking about something that is taking me away from getting this bag, then I am not doing anything for my future. Look around the league, many players get caught up in drama and it eventually leads to an arrest, or problem. I just want a normal relationship where we value one another.

Retired NFL Football player who played 7 years

I am looking for a life partner, a soulmate, not a one night stand. It is hard to gauge a women’s true interest because so many throw themselves at you when they see your house or vehicle. When it comes down to it, they want to talk about your work, they want to talk about your investments. I want to talk about kids, a future, have a plan. Football was great, but I am done. My body is beaten, I need a life partner now. I need someone that is willing to help me become a successful investor, not successfully deduct my money. Hopefully they can develop as an individual to be ready to keep up with my dreams and aspirations. I want someone who can see my future with me, not drive me away from it.

Third round draft pick

I want a lady that loves her body. There is nothing more sexy than having a female that can work out with you and can help challenge you to be better. I am not looking for someone that runs marathons every day, I am looking for someone who will go to the gym with me and can realize it is important for my growth. Football will eventually end, and you suffer many injuries. I need a partner that can help me keep my body fresh, so when I do walk away from the game, I am healthy enough to enjoy the sacrifices I made.

Former First Round Pick

I am sick of gold diggers, I have a Victorian style house and several sports cars, but I attract women for some reason who only lavish in that lifestyle. I am not looking to spend all my money on bottles of champagne and the new products that hit the market. I want to invest and make my money last. Unfortunately, my career was cut short due to an injury but I was lucky enough to pay off my house and my cars early. I work a 9-5 like many retired players do now and it is still hard to find a loyal woman. I am still young, but I feel I will find the right girl soon. I started going to church and all the elders of the church keep trying to hook me up. That may work, haha!

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